c.2018, Sleeping Bear Press
$16.99 ($21.99 Canada)
32 pages

Sometimes, people can barely tell you and your best friend apart.

If you happen to wear the same outfit one day, everyone mixes you up because youโ€™re so alike. You talk alike and look alike and enjoy the same jokes. But you know, heโ€™s unique and so are you, and in the new book โ€œA Boy Like Youโ€ by Frank Murphy, illustrated by Kayla Harren, youโ€™ll see how very special that is.

How many kids are in your neighborhood? In your family? Lots, right? Well, there are โ€œbillions and billions and billions of people in the world,โ€ but there is absolutely nobody else exactly like you. Nothing would be the same if you werenโ€™t here.

This planet needs boys like you, boys that are strong in all the right ways. We need boys who are smart in ways that matter. The world needs kind boys, and boys who donโ€™t make other kids feel bad.

We need boys like you who know that sports are fun and exciting but that there are other important things in the world. We need boys who are curious and boys who know how to tell stories and who are adventurous and who can dream.

We need boys like you who know that you canโ€™t be brave without being afraid first. Never, for example, be afraid to cry. Crying is not weakness, itโ€™s strength. Even grown men cry, you know.

The world needs boys like you, just as it needs all the kinds of people youโ€™ll meet in your lifetime. The fun thing is that every one of them has a story to tell, so listen and โ€œlisten hard.โ€ Youโ€™ll learn a lot through the years, just by hearing others.

Tell your friends youโ€™re proud of them. Tell your family you love them. Do good things. Walk tall โ€œwith your head upโ€ so you know โ€œwhere youโ€™re going.โ€ Greet other people when you see them, and ask if they might need help. Be nice to the new kid in class. Leave every place and person better than they were when you found them. And never forget that โ€œthe world needs a boy โ€ฆ oh, boy, a boy like YOU!โ€

One casual stroll around the bookstore or library, and you know that girl-power books have taken over, front and center. โ€œA Boy Like Youโ€ helps represent the other side of childrenโ€™s literature.

Across every page of this picture-packed book, boys who appear to be grade-school age romp through an average day, accompanied by playmates and neighbors of all races; here, kids will see themselves and their families. Illustrations by Kayla Harren are plenty to keep a child entertained because thereโ€™s so much activity but author Frank Murphyโ€™s words are the strength of the book. Without preaching or nagging, that text quietly offers many positive traits as things for boys to imitate. An afterword for parents is the perfect cherry on top.

Get this book for your 3- to 8-year-old little guy and share it often. You know heโ€™s special and โ€œA Boy Like Youโ€ will nicely set him apart.

This correspondent is a guest contributor to The Washington Informer.

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